Hi KarmaKizuna,
Welcome to Web2.0calc forum, I hope you learn lots here :)
You can write people private messages if you want to but please use it as a way to direct them to your query on the forum.
Make sure you include the link to your question or the post you want them to answer or discuss.
The question itself should be public, I mean it should be on the forum.
It seems you queried Heureka's answer privately. I would have like to have seen what that query was.
When you ask a question, it is there for us all to answer, or learn from, so please do not hide it away in a private message :)