Note in the pic below that FH = (1/2)s where s is the side length
And also that DA = AF = r = 4.5
So we have, by the Pythagorean Theorem
AF^2 = (1/2)s^2 + AH^2
4.5^2 = 20.25 = (1/2)s^2 + AH^2
AH^2 = 20.25 - (s/2)^2
AH = √(20.25 - (s/2)^2 )
Therefore, again using the Pythagorean Theorem, we have
s^2 = (s/2)^2 + [DA + AH]^2
s^2 = (s/2)^2 + ((4.5 + √(20.25 - (s/2)^2 ))^2
(3/4)s^2 = 20.25 + 9 √(20.25 - (s/2)^2 ) + 20.25 - (s/4)^2 (add (s/4)^2 to each side)
s^2 = 40.5 + 9 √(20.25 - (s/2)^2 ) subtract 40.5 from each side
s^2 - 40.5 = 9 √(20.25 - (s/2)^2 ) square both sides
(s^2 - 40.5)^2 = 81 (20.25 - (s^2)/4)
s^4 - 81s^2 + 1640.25 = 1640.25 - (81/4)s^2
s^4 - 81s^2 + (81/4)s^2 = 0
s^4 - (243/4)s^2 = 0
Factor
(s^2) (s^2 - (243/4)) =0 one solution is s = 0 .... reject this
So we have
(s^2 - 243/4) = 0
s = (1/2)√243 = (1/2)(9)√3 = 4.5√3 = 7.7942286340599478
Here's a pic....(the angles are not exact..it's just to give you a feel for the geometry of the problem)


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